Are there any bullies in your school?

[condemn]

Is there anyone out there who is facing bullies problems? I have a friend who is constantly being picked on by someone bigger and strongger. He pulled her pony tail and sometimes tried to trip her down. The worst case was to place a life frog under her desk! We want to do something about it like getting back on him but it's so hard and we failed all the time. We are really sick of his nonsense... Are there any good ideas! Pls help us plssssss

We thought about going to the teachers but he threathened to get his gang to beat us up if we do so.... Can someone pls offer me some advise.... I am really very scared and troubled.... What should I do... SOBBBBBBBBBB

my friend is 12 this yr

luv,
penelope

[skylight]

hm...nowsaday there are so much of these incidents.

Those bullies seem to want attention.

i dont think revenge is a good idea.

The best will be telling your parents about this.

[condemn]

i don't dare to talk about such issues to my parents...
they might send me to another school and i'll miss all my friends...
sob..... is there a better solution?

[Xzaf]

Ok here's what you do:

First you tell a teacher, parent, or , even better, the school principal. This should get him in sometype of trouble sometime. If you tell the teacher(s), they will keep a tougher eye on him.

Now about the whole "I'll get my gang to hurt you" threat situation. Simply tell whoever you are talking to from above and state that. Also tell your parents. If you do wind up hurt (because chances are they won't kill you) then they know why and can take direct action against them because then it's assualt and battery. This can get the kid in a lot of trouble. If he (and maybe his gang) comes back from his (their) punishment and still wants more and ends up hurting you again you do it again.

Or, you could just keep a knife on you at all times and walk to places with a friend. Therefore when you stab the person trying to hurt you, you have a witness. Stabbing someone in self-defense isn't illegal >.>

While the knife option may sound like fun, I'd stick with 'tell teacher' approach. You might get physically hurt, but wounds can heal faster than mental scars. Probably why mental scars are called scars >.> <.<

[skylight]

DON'T try the knife option !

The best solution now is what Xzaf said, tell your teacher, parents.
If you really get beaten, your teacher/parent will know who does it and they will get punish. And of cause try not to be alone, when there are people around you, they dont dare to do any stuff.

[condemn]

hi,

thanks for all your advise. i think i will advise my friend to tell her parents about it..

I can't even cut an orange.. I don't think it will be useful to carry a knife with me..

[skylight]

Ask your friend to join us here, we welcome anyone

[condemn]

my friend doesn't have internet connection at home because her family can't afford to get a computer

[datoneperson]

my school is pretty small and almost everyone knowss each other, also eveyone is a nerd so peeps cant really beat up peeps also there has never been a fight ever in the 14 year history of my school, there has been suicides though, i think my school has the highest rate of sucides or something to do with suicides

[darren42]

we neva really had a problem with bullies in my school. we only have a bunch of idiots who always got into trouble and sometimes suspended. when ealing with bullies it is best to tell an adult since getting revenge could backfire in the worst possible way or lead to the bullying getting even worse