Quarrel Forum

TiffanyLye · #1 (**permalink**) 29 Dec 2007, 18:45

Girls, do you mind if you had a boyfriend that is considered softer and weaker than you? As for guys, do you mind if your girlfriend is somewhat stronger/tougher than you?

kanjisasahara · #2 (**permalink**) 30 Dec 2007, 23:55

yes i do. i have a personal preference for girls that are 2-3 inches shorter than me. give them a feeling of protection and security. that might be weird for some of you but thats me. and either way thats not going to happen because im ripped. go to the gym and work out 3 times a week. unless they're really hardcore athletes.

Gunbladeuser · #3 (**permalink**) 31 Dec 2007, 20:39

I wouldn't care about that much, but... it somehow would be indeed better, if the girl was a little smaller than me and somehow weaker... yeah, about having to be protected and such things... ^^"

Krivolapov · #4 (**permalink**) 11 Jan 2008, 20:35

Always good in my eyes (the beholder) to have a softer, caring when needed, smile like a cut apple on its side..

She has to be shorter and have a head on her shoulders too..I like my gf cause shes not indecisive..(dont quote my spelling) She knows what she wants in life and so do I.

Shes also stubborn sometimes like me which is good always good to knock one another around sometime which aldo bending but not breaking your back for the other.

kwjw88 · #5 (**permalink**) 19 Jan 2008, 22:39

As long as I don't look like a complete dwarf besides her, height hardly matters to me...

As for her toughness, I don't mind her being stronger than me (mainly because most girls are..hahahahaha...sad....) but she can't have a toughness comparable to a man (lol...yeah, not me, a man). That just creeps me out...

Girls that are strong show independence and capability in general...nothing bad aboutt hat...and that may not necessarily compromises her heart...so...why not?

Krivolapov · #6 (**permalink**) 20 Jan 2008, 05:43

As long as her arms and legs arent bigger then mine..were ok.

dice_auroa · #7 (**permalink**) 29 Jan 2008, 04:43

I find this odd because what is 'tough'. While my boyfriend is taller than me and can kick many a guy butts, so can I. I am no Jane the bodybuilder (for reference see YouTube - Whose line is it anyway - Funniest Songstyles ever! ) but I can easily hospitalize most men. And I am very independent, can talk for myself and make big decisions. However, I don't think that these features should make me somehow less attractive, just more interesting to deal with.

Krivolapov · #8 (**permalink**) 30 Jan 2008, 18:18

haha well i mean strong strong women are a little creepy in my opinion...

Binny922 · #9 (**permalink**) 07 Feb 2008, 12:37

I don't mind if he's weaker physically. But if he's spineless and mentally weak I can't stand that. I need a guy that knows how to use his brain and won't break if I happen to say something mean. I'm someone that uses a lot of sarcasm and I can say some pretty harsh things when I'm being honest. If a guy can't take that he shouldn't date me.

Krivolapov · #10 (**permalink**) 07 Feb 2008, 18:43

Has to have abrain for some processing hey.