Quarrel Forum

crend · #1 (**permalink**) 19 Apr 2007, 07:18

Why is it that when I am looking for a girl friend none of them seem to be interested, but when i stop looking for a while it seems that i become super popular with them. Or when you do finally get one that you like and that she likes you, it seems that at that exact time another one begings to like you that you like also. its just so frustrating

Maiko · #2 (**permalink**) 19 Apr 2007, 09:22

Well, I noticed that as well

I hate it my self, But it could be the magnet theroy, Positive + Positive= Pushed away Negitive + Positive= Pulled towards, or something like that, or it could be your attitude =\ Who knows?

LastRabbit · #3 (**permalink**) 19 Apr 2007, 11:40

haha.... don't worry... maybe that's the way for you to find the "RIGHT GIRL".... remember... "PATIENCE" is a virtue....

crend · #4 (**permalink**) 19 Apr 2007, 13:23

I guess that makes sense. But also per say i treat a girl with respect, honor, and dignity thus causeing her to not like me? where as another guy could treat her as a tramp, hoe, etc. and she throws herself all over him

kanjisasahara · #5 (**permalink**) 22 Apr 2007, 07:14

im kinda stuck with the same problem. when i say i dont particularly care about being in a relationship i end up getting myself into one. and when i want one i cant get into one. the latter was in 9th grade. the former in 10th. what a difference a year can make.

goldensun441 · #6 (**permalink**) 22 Apr 2007, 13:19

Be meaner and it won't happen.. sometimes i like to be nice and sometimes i like to be semi-mean for fun... you dont actually even have to be mean to someone directly to get them off u.. just start rumors that your a jerk and say jerky things out loud were girls can here you.. lol u could even stage it by having a girl/friend pretend to ask u out and u reject her and have her do it were people can hear you.. lol so many plots so little time..

sometimes things dont work out with the certain people you want but thats just life. but hey if u dont want relationships just dont be wanted lol

crend · #7 (**permalink**) 23 Apr 2007, 13:24

I have discovered that my greatest problem is that none of the girls in the area that i live have any intests in the areas that i do. Either that or they have a kid. (which is a big down fall of living in an area with one of the highest teen pregnancy rates in the country)*US*

chen86 · #8 (**permalink**) 24 Apr 2007, 17:15

i think it's just because girls like cool guy.
when you're looking for a girlfriend, you looked like a fool, but when u r not looking any of it, you'll be cool hehe

crend · #9 (**permalink**) 26 Apr 2007, 05:30

uh........... that makes... a lot of sense! whoa i uh

Maiko · #10 (**permalink**) 26 Apr 2007, 09:35

Well Crend, I would just advise you to be your self, girls don't like guys who can't act normal (I am speeking for long term relationships) around them, aka. Pretend they like something (I once said I liked to play Basket Ball, and that I was good at it, a lie right there, and she got pissed when she saw me play) Anyway, some advice, keep clean, no one, let alone girls, likes people who stick, brush your teath, ect, and just ask normal, oh, and don't stare at girls like a perverted wolf, Look them in the eye, and not at were that would guess you would look, listen to them, they like it when you are kind enough to comment on what they said, example: Guy1 and Girl1 are talking,

*Bad way*
Girl1: I love cats, I had a cat named Chester, I rased him from a kitten, he was very cute with his gold coat.
Guy1: Yeah, cats rock.

*Good Way*
Girl1: I love cats, I had a cat named Chester, I rased him from a kitten, he was very cute with his gold coat.
Guy1: Yeah, I like cats as well, But I like cats with a black and white coat, by the way, why did you choose Chester for the name of your cat?

Well, yeah, Girls like it when you pay attention :P So, I hope this helps, See you around.
-Maiko