do guys really?

[crend]

The weight can be something if they are disproportional but if they are cute and just slightly shorter than me than i don't see any problems with them. Also for 90 pounds to be fat she would have to be like 4 foot even.

[kwjw88]

It is said that people tend to be attracted to those with similar looks/levels of attractiveness because it is easier to relate to each other this way...both went through similar experiences because they have similar physical shape. It's pretty subjective so don't try to generalise it too much

This is psychology! Just learnt it not long ago

[Xylric]

My former girlfriend weighed over 300 lbs, and the fact of the matter is, I didn't care at all how much she weighed.

Someone as intelligent and opinionated as her, of course she'd look how she wants, rather than how everyone else expects her to be.

Her weight really does suit her.

[dice_auroa]

These posts make me feel so much better about myself. As a girl we're always overly conscious of our size, and though I'm not fat, I'm no size 0. I wish sometimes that the males in my life would say things like that more. (Vs my dad saying i'm clearly overweight as anyone over X number is fat etc etc)

[kwjw88]

Originally Posted by dice_auroa

These posts make me feel so much better about myself. As a girl we're always overly conscious of our size, and though I'm not fat, I'm no size 0. I wish sometimes that the males in my life would say things like that more. (Vs my dad saying i'm clearly overweight as anyone over X number is fat etc etc)

^^Don't worry too much about what others say. Just as long as you're healthy and feel good about yourself, not much else matters. If you're technifcally not overweight, you're fine and healthy! I have seen the same thing happen to my little cousin, where everyone's asking her to lose weight, and she isn't even 12 yet!

Anyways, it's true slim figures are what attract males in this age, but ridiculously slim figures with horrible personalities don't really make sexy people, lol...so...don't let superficialities get to you, too much anyways. Like I said, being happy is what's most important.

Hope there weren't too many contradictions in there. Have been known to do that a lot

[kanjisasahara]

i know girls who are conscious about their waist line but they don't let it get out of control. its all about what you eat not how much. well maybe there is a line of how much you should eat but thats secondary :P

[kwjw88]

Did you know that in the past, plump figures were said to be more attractive because it symbolised good health?

Just though I'd share this little fact that I learnt in class some time ago...lol. Hope that didn't sound like I was imply anything about anyone. It's just something interesting to know, in my opinion at least

[kanjisasahara]

to add on to that it also symbolized socioeconomic status. you can afford to eat and drink that much while others cannot. now even those who can afford to eat wont and those who cannot afford to eat will just wont eat. weird country this USA.

[kwjw88]

Yep, the first statement of yours was true, though I kinda lost you in the subsequent sentences, lols

Anyways, back then, people were able to see what a person's looks implied, instead of judging people by them.

People really change with time don't they...

[kanjisasahara]

yeah the world is an interesting place. but as the chinese say. "may you live in interesting times" dont really know if that is a blessing or a curse :P