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kanjisasahara · #1 (**permalink**) 07 Apr 2007, 23:26

okay. on the last school trip we had a 12 hour bus ride both ways. the bus on the way i hooked up with the girl sitting next to me. its a mutual relationship. i like her and she likes me. but after 4 days we end it because of some really weird circumstances. i dont really want to elaborate on that. but i realize that i more than like her i now love her. its been killing me. but there are other girls after me. they are all hot and great friends to me. but im stuck. im on the horns of dilema and i dont know what to do. plus its hard for me to concentrate. and i need to since my course work has been piling up.

sarathy · #2 (**permalink**) 23 May 2007, 15:40

Go ahead and tell her what u feel. Atleast u'll be relieved of your burden. If she gets along well and good, otherwise throw it at the back of your mind and move on with your life. The best thing that you need to do rite now is go and tell her what u feel. Just be frank.

Maiko · #3 (**permalink**) 27 May 2007, 05:43

Well, Decide what is importent to you

Would you rather be with someone you don't love, or someone you do? I personaly would tell the girl I loved her, and see what she had to say about that

kanjisasahara · #4 (**permalink**) 28 May 2007, 01:44

thanks. i will be frank. but its gotten even more confusing since then :/

crend · #5 (**permalink**) 29 May 2007, 16:45

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maiko

Well, Decide what is importent to you

Would you rather be with someone you don't love, or someone you do? I personaly would tell the girl I loved her, and see what she had to say about that

I have to agree, even though you may want to take other peoples feelings into consideration first, its what you want that really matters because if your giving false feels then the relationship will eventually fall apart because you may have feelings for another.

alchemistas · #6 (**permalink**) 30 May 2007, 02:24

no no no! just don't tell her that you love her. if you want to save your relationship. because if you tell her your feelings right now, it is too early and will come off as strange and she will probably creep out.
wait until she fells in love with you.

sayangayu · #7 (**permalink**) 31 May 2007, 15:12

yah..u need to tell her ur feelings..dont let love go away because ur ego..but let ego go away because of ur love.

she may wont accept u but u need to face this life.. whatever u do, i hope u do what can make u smile.

alchemistas · #8 (**permalink**) 31 May 2007, 20:01

if you want to smile theres no need to tell your feelings, especially when so called "love" in that state usually is just attraction.. just have fun and tell her nothing about feelings so far. bah

kanjisasahara · #9 (**permalink**) 01 Jun 2007, 03:20

its even escalated. most of the girls are asians and 1 of them is moving away. the original girl ive gotten over but im getting friendlier with the other girls. shit! i need to do something fast so i can get out of this situation.

Maiko · #10 (**permalink**) 01 Jun 2007, 08:47

Well, if you think about it, The girls who like you, if you go out with them, You will only give them a moment of happiness, and once they find out that you don't return the feelings that they have for you, they will be crushed (Spoken from exp. I did that once, and I regret it to this day, I doubt I will ever stop) It would be best to tell them out right, but make it gentle, like along the lines of...

"Hey, I know you like me, and I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I am sorry, I just can't return the feelings you have for me, I am looking out for your feelings, I don't want to hurt you, I am sorry"

Something like that, Be gentle ok? Girls can carry a big hatred for people who hurt them, anyway I hope this helps. I hope every thing works out, See ya later.