need some advice.

[crend]

I don't know if this will mean anything to anybody but, if you have watch the anime Suzuka, a lot of those situations occur. Though it may be just an anime i feel that they pointed out all the good and bad things that can happen in relationships(also guy likes girl and at one point goes out with girl who likes him instead, creepy almost)

[toothsmith]

Originally Posted by meandme

Im sorry to barg in but i have a simler situation to you and i wonder if you can tell what to do after you read it please

I have a girl that I love more than my anyone but the problem is that I dont know how she feel about me and there the problem with my brother who propsed to her and her family accepted him and since I like him I never even told him how I feel about it insted I went with him and propsed her for him and now they have tied it and I now its imposple now but still I cant get over it so please tell what to do in case you are wondering in my contry once the family is ok with the someone its case closed.

Hey meandme... I'm sorry to say this, but you'll have to limit the way you feel about her and love her as a special friend. Even thinking of things in any other way can complicate things for you and both your families and ways you cannot possible imagine. If you truly love her, you can still get to know her as a person and appreciate all that makes her special without things getting physical.. if it was just something physical then time will heal all wounds...

..and it may seem harsh to say, but you'll read it in the general advice given here.. be sure of your feelings and then act on it... if you just wait you might lose the love of your life...

...as Shakespeare wrote : It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all....

It is often said that you will meet several people in your life that you can have a life-long partnership with, it just seems that in this case she cannot be the one...

... wishing you the best of luck in finding your special woman...