need some advice.

[Maiko]

Crap....I ment GF >< I feel so frickin stupid right now, I was tired when I wrote this......sorry everyone xD

[goldensun441]

i dono when this post was sated but i felt like responding to ur original post.
i think that you should start intentionally trying to notice your friend more. you may like one girl but a relationship is worth more than that. personally i would almost perfer it if i dated someone that i was able to be friends with first. so if theres anyway you like her i say treat her good and realize that going after this other girl is like trying to start over again.

just my advice though. im not criticizing or anything. its not like im in the same situation or anything. just make sure you think through the consequences and decide what you value and who you would really like to end up with when your older and your personalitys shine more than your outward appearance. ^^

[6r3g9]

HAH!.....Sounds lyk any other romance story......If u think the girl u lyk is worth it, then go for her........but if the girl is jus gonna dump u after a week, keep ur friend......cuz that friendship might be worth more than a week of happiness jus to be extremely depressed after......And u might end up lyking that friend when she's trying to cheer u up.

[sayangayu]

here my advice

make sure that girl you liked as a good person
dont make relitionship if you not serious
if you not serious i think you should go to your friends 1st

meet that girl and show your feeling to her
but in the same time try to notice him bout ur situasion

slowtalk with your friends
if he still disturb your relitionship
just go trough without your friend
coz a good friend must understand and respect your interest

[elag_23]

Thanks for all the people who gave me advice. I'm now going out with the girl whom I like and she's a really wonderful person. I talked to my friend and apologized because I know that deep inside her she's really hurt. but the important thing is we're still friends.

[dice_auroa]

congrads that everything seems to have worked out well

[elag_23]

Originally Posted by dice_auroa

congrads that everything seems to have worked out well

thanks!

[haseo4872]

haw haw. thats funny, sounds like me when i was 20 levels lower in my experiance with girls. my advice is if you fall pick yourself back up, or you wont learn to pick yourself up, or girls for that matter haw haw haw.

[sarathy]

Its always said that your life would be better with the person who loves u rather than with the person u love. But think over and ensure if you can make up your mind to date your friend. But if u still consider her only a friend and nothing more, just move on. Be frank with your friend and tell her what u feel. Never break her heart.

[Makosenpai]

Speaking from experience, if you really don't want to give your friend a chance (who knows, maybe you'd like her after dating her) it's better to be straightforward with it. Dropping hints just usually isn't enough, although it's easier to hurt someone's feelings by being too blunt.