Re: What should i do???
Most of us are going to need more information to actually help you.
I mean, both of you could be 8 years old, as far as we know.
Also you state what you do, but what is HE doing at the same time?
Isn't he trying to start a conversation (face-to-face) at least?
BAck to what could help, let's use the Triarchal theory of love as a baseline.
Which is made up with: Passion, Intimacy, and Committment.
Committment is what you say you want.
Passion is there in terms that he's your 'crush'.
But apparently you two aren't friends yet. (Intimacy).
Well, what do you do with your friends?
What are your common hobbies?
What are your common interests?
What _do_ you want to talk to him about?
What do you see him talking about to others?
What are you most comfortable with?
What is he most comforable with?
Basically put, you enjoy being around him -- good start.
Now, what enjoyable things did you ever want to do with a BF? Or what enjoyable things do you want to do with him?
And because someone is thinking it, trust me, sex doesn't last that long. If you want the relationship to last you have to have other things you enjoy doing together platonicly.
Basically put the real glue that holds a relationship together is simply enjoying your time together, and WANTING to be around him in daily activities.
Off the top of my head a normal converstation is gripeing about a common problem (teacher, family, etc), or discussion about a common goal (skiing, getting the new nintendo Wii, driving a car...etc).
But I don't know enough about either of you two to offer a specific common ground. I can only give you general strategy, not specific step-by-step tactics.
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