Quarrel Forum

aznangel · #1 (**permalink**) 01 Nov 2006, 14:44

ok so my friend and i had a discussion about girls thinking too much and guys thinking too little ending a relationship.

during our discussion we kept going in circles. he thought it was because girls thought too much overthinking the situation because he said their first thought is usually right and then guys don't think enough so when something is wrong with the girl they don't notice. so who's fault do u think it is? the guy, girl, both, neither? as u can see we never really concluded with an anwer.

kanjisasahara · #2 (**permalink**) 05 Nov 2006, 09:36

well its both the guy's and the girl's fault. equally. you cant put the blame on a single person.

dannyb543 · #3 (**permalink**) 07 Nov 2006, 07:21

Lol completely depends on the scenario at hand i think. Can't just point the blame because women are known for talking too much and men thinking too little

NBBChaz · #4 (**permalink**) 07 Nov 2006, 08:55

"Don't think, thinkin's a bad trip"
-NBB

Afroangel · #5 (**permalink**) 17 Nov 2006, 10:39

To put a dif spin on things. As my friends and I put it..Women are emotional, well Men are "Logical".. Ofcourse when i say logical i just mean we use our brains instead of emotions okay ladies.. don't trip on me.. But we guys all know.. in the end of a relationship.. we try to reason it out.. in our heads... the girls just let out their emotions. Hence the tears.. ..

Just a if thought instead of the think too much too little thing.. though i agree that does happen also

RazorbladeRomance · #6 (**permalink**) 25 Nov 2006, 16:35

both i would say
but depends on the situation

spirited_soul · #7 (**permalink**) 01 Dec 2006, 08:21

I don't think its really a B or G thing it really depends on your family background and other factors.

eg. if someone is an only child then he she tends to be either selfish or me-centred, this could be very obvious or very subtle.
My first boyfriend is an only child and he did not like sharing, he would perfer to buy 2 sodas rather than share one. This is a simple eg. but I always felt it a bit romantic to share and he never gave it a second thought, until I pointed it out.

koonkang · #8 (**permalink**) 04 Jan 2007, 18:12

i would agree with spirited_soul on the it depends on background. But also Afroangel makes a good point aswell. another thing is who finnished with who? like when my x fnnished me i was like ok. and i got over it in like a day but she seemed fine. until she noticed i was looking at other women and then she was like WTF?!?! and was getting all emotional on me and i was like WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?! u finnished with me u stupid hoe(didnt actually say stupid hoe

lol).

and now some o her friends think im heartless because i was out looking for someone too soon not considering her feelings? and yet she had her eye on one of by best friends while out with me? the day after we finnished she said to my friend why dont we go out? and he ws like, because i dont reall like you much, i only hung with you cause nick was there (nick=me).

Tiffa · #9 (**permalink**) 27 Mar 2007, 23:13

I'm a girl and, yeah, I tend to think too much. But that's my personality, I think too much for a lot of things, not just guys. But don't worry, I do get a life

hotsuma95517344 · #10 (**permalink**) 29 Mar 2007, 08:37

Yea, I say it's both their fault......The girl doesn't make it obvious enough that there's something wrong......And the guy doesn't really think too much about it if everything seems alrite.