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kanjisasahara · #21 (**permalink**) 24 Oct 2006, 03:04

hmm that gives a whole new perspective. thanks for the advice. although im gonna stay the course.

Buxtehude · #22 (**permalink**) 18 Nov 2006, 12:06

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Originally Posted by kanjisasahara

i have a question. what do you do if you have multiple girls liking you and you like them all back? im in that situation and its so confusing. please give me some advice if any of you have been in this situation. *i hope your listening darech*

Date them all! you need to make a strict schedule though, designate a night for each girl. and dont let them deviate from that, if they miss their night for the week, then too bad, they can come back next week.

also dont feel guilty. . .if you get caught, oh well so what? there's millions of other girls that will like you. You are the sunshine amidst the sea of clouds.

good luck, and have fun. . .LOTS of fun. . .

yosemite · #23 (**permalink**) 18 Nov 2006, 12:13

well this is old, but ill post anyways, i was in a situation like this myself, three girls liked me, and i was attracted to all of them, i didnt have a girlfriend, but i told them all that i liked them all, and would not be able to choose(they wanted me to) so i ended up saying it'd be unfair to choose, and i couldnt bring myself to do it, so i simply remained friends with them.

they wanted me to date them all when i said i wouldnt choose, but i am against that, not because of morals, but because it takes a lot of time and effort to be in a relationship, plus money. i just cant do that to someone, i want them to feel special and you cant do that with three girls, i dont think

but its up to you.

Buxtehude · #24 (**permalink**) 18 Nov 2006, 12:26

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Originally Posted by yosemite

, but because it takes a lot of time and effort to be in a relationship, plus money. i just cant do that to someone, i want them to feel special and you cant do that with three girls, i dont think

but its up to you.

Money? why would it cost money? 0_o? Dont tell me you're buying crap for women. . . .they arent prostitues you know. . .

Women are supposed to help YOU out. . .they WANT to help you out. . .they get PISSED OFF when you DONT let them help you out. and dude, if they were al like "date us all" you could have had a great time, and the help of three women as well in the thing you want to do with your life. You could have been like a lion in the jungle. . .

All lions do is eat and have S_X(<---Mature) ALL day! and They protect their pride. . that's it. You could hav ebeen like a king man. . .screw what society says, and what other people think! Why would you let the thoguhts of others influence you and your life? you ONLY LIVE ONCE! Better not waste that life worrying aobut what others think of ya. you'll regret it.
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yosemite · #25 (**permalink**) 19 Nov 2006, 03:24

well firstly, im not the type to want to just have sex, i am abstinate in fact, secondly, some women are insulted when you want them to pay for stuff. i have dated a girl who hated it if i didnt let her pay, so we'd compromise, but my style is to pay, like if we go to the movies, it's 8.50 per person, then like a million dollars for snacks

i personally dont mind spending money, but multiply it by 3. plus there's no "reward" if you were besides their companionship. i doubt i would have had sex with all 3 at once, even if they wanted to, i cant manage 3 girls. i want to focus on one girl, to give her the full experience, besides like i said, im not having sex.

im sorry but my morals would'nt allow me to do that to those girls, my friends said the same thing as you, but in the end, we're all good friends, and they appreciated my feelings, and my honesty.

kanjisasahara · #26 (**permalink**) 19 Nov 2006, 05:30

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Originally Posted by kanjisasahara

hmm that gives a whole new perspective. thanks for the advice. although im gonna stay the course.

wow i just totally quoted george bush. jeez. well in anycase im back to single status again so it doenst really matter. i just wanna try and enjoy my life. its hard to do so with so much pressure to do well in school. and in my case a little harmless flirting helps let off some steam. so im not in for really long term relationships since we'll be seperated by college anyway. now im concentrating on sports and keeping myself in shape. and if i happen to pick up a girl on the way well then thats a bonus

Buxtehude · #27 (**permalink**) 19 Nov 2006, 11:53

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Originally Posted by yosemite

well firstly, im not the type to want to just have sex, i am abstinate in fact, secondly, some women are insulted when you want them to pay for stuff. i have dated a girl who hated it if i didnt let her pay, so we'd compromise, but my style is to pay, like if we go to the movies, it's 8.50 per person, then like a million dollars for snacks

i personally dont mind spending money, but multiply it by 3. plus there's no "reward" if you were besides their companionship. i doubt i would have had sex with all 3 at once, even if they wanted to, i cant manage 3 girls. i want to focus on one girl, to give her the full experience, besides like i said, im not having sex.

im sorry but my morals would'nt allow me to do that to those girls, my friends said the same thing as you, but in the end, we're all good friends, and they appreciated my feelings, and my honesty.

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Originally Posted by yosemite

well firstly, im not the type to want to just have sex, i am abstinate

Ahh I see.
So You're not man enough to have sex with your woman like she deserves. . .I feel sorry for her.

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Originally Posted by yosemite

some women are insulted when you want them to pay for stuff.

And? If they dont like it, you can always get another woman. And besides if you are having sex with them, and giving them good sex, then they WILL pay for stuff when you TELL them to. . BECAUSE they are in LOVE with YOU.

Also, stop walking on eggshells with women, they hate that, actually. . .stop walkign on eggshells with people in general, if they dont like what you demand/have to say etc. . then you're obviously dealing with the wrong person. You're worth more than just being only able to crawl around with the turkeys afraid of doing this or that becuase someone ELSE who DOESNT have control over you may think ill of you.

Oh and women are not prostitues, so the next time a chick gets all offended? Just tell her. . ."Huh? What are you gettin so pised at? you're not a hoe. . .are you?"

Take a look at this link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOUCPJeJkPY

P.S I Really hope you get out of this abstinence thing, I mean do you masturbate instead? If you do, then you REALLY need to stop that. . .like forever. . .like seriously. . .

Good Luck!

zmonkeyz · #28 (**permalink**) 20 Nov 2006, 11:33

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Originally Posted by Buxtehude

Date them all! you need to make a strict schedule though, designate a night for each girl. and dont let them deviate from that, if they miss their night for the week, then too bad, they can come back next week.

also dont feel guilty. . .if you get caught, oh well so what? there's millions of other girls that will like you. You are the sunshine amidst the sea of clouds.

good luck, and have fun. . .LOTS of fun. . .

it is true dat he is the sunshine....
but it isn't nice of teaching him to be a jerk right?

Buxtehude · #29 (**permalink**) 20 Nov 2006, 11:49

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Originally Posted by zmonkeyz

it is true dat he is the sunshine....
but it isn't nice of teaching him to be a jerk right?

If by Jerk you mean, teaching him his owh self worth, and giving him the knowledge that he has the power, and doesnt have to take shit from anyone, much less a woman. He doesnt have to be the one crying over if a girl like shim or not, or why she wont go out with him he can just be like meh oh well, I got someone else I can call since this chick aint treatin me with the respect I deserve. . .but hey, if that is a jerk. . .then yes. . .This is how you become a jerk. . .and why these "Jerks" get all the girls. . .

but I didnt answer your question which was if it was nice to teach him to be this Jerk that I described above.

The answer is "SO WHAT"?

Why does it matter if it is "nice" or not if it's going to hurt someones "feelings". . . Humans are strong, they can get over it first of all, and second of all. why should we be concerned of what OTHER people think of us? THEY dont run our lives, feed us, clothe us, we need to start. . .or rather stop giving a F**k and live our lives the way we want. So he can either take the advice or leave it. it's up to him.

Remember "Free your mind" all that stuff about is it this or that, will this person think bad of me blah blah, it's all in the mind. . .freeing your mind of that kind of stuff, will make you into a much better person in the long run.

But. . .then again you can just walk on eggshells for the rest of your life and miss out on what life really has to offer. . .

spirited_soul · #30 (**permalink**) 01 Dec 2006, 08:24

You don't have a problem unless you plan to get serious with these gals...then you have a problem.

So either pick one and date or whatever or keep them all as friends and find another special girl.

Or find out which of them is willing to take it further and then make up your mind.