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Originally Posted by katelynisspecial
I think it's all fine and dandy to like multiple girls and have them like you, but as for taking it further, that's a NO. A big fat no. You should only go out with one girl. That makes it fair to her, and you can spend all your attention on one person, it just makes for a healthier relationship. And if the girls are sisters, well that's just revolting (I also hope you're listening Darech).
btw... you want darech's advice? He went for it, and look where he's ended up.
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Give me a break, katelynisspecial... I believed in the 'one-guy-for-one-girl' philosophy for the longest time, and it took a conniving, rip-your-heart-out-take-a-bite-and-put-it-back girl to make me realise... that I was right all along.
Then came one girl who certainly gave off the 'player' vibe REAL strong, and for reasons I can never fathom, she took a shine to me even though I wasn't planning on an emotional relationship (I admit I was lonely enough to go for a physical one instead). We hit it off at arm's length, but her sister came into the picture... those of you who know my story will also remember that 'Mariel' was already attached at the time, and I just don't have feelings for girls who are already attached. Period. No matter how comely they may look in a skimpy negligee or whatnot. Even though 'Mariel' was practically everything I would like in a girl. I did not feel for her while she had a boyfriend.
Complications arose when I was dealing with my feelings for 'Sandy' and one unplanned night with her became the prelude to a hitherto unheard of, unexpected turn in my life...
Yeah... I ended up with TWO girlfriends. You want my advice? Please DO NOT get more than one. Seriously. Although I've now made my feelings known to 'Mariel', I haven't spoken to 'Sandy' to end things. And personally, I do not know what possessed them to accept 'sharing' me. That is one alien concept as far as I can understand women. Avoiding jealousy and envy on the girl's part is why I adopted the 'one-guy-for-one-girl' philosophy.
As much as having more than one girl can be fun (I can't say otherwise), but I believe I am an exception. Even the two sisters admit that the relationshiip between us is... 'special'. In their company I can't believe I'm living in reality.
So as bad an impression I make on you, katelynisspecial, I didn't exactly choose to go for more than one girl.
Just keep life simple. Stick to one!!!