Re: Girls: Traits of a Perfect guy
Seems really interesting to me that all the girls I've asked this question to have answered pretty much in the same way that all the guys I've asked the equivalent question to.
For the most part, it seems that people prefer a counterpart that they can be themselves around, able to drop their guard and not worry about it being taken advantage of or considered a sign of weakness, as well as wanting someone who can fill in the blanks of the world, to help it make just a little more sense.
It's always seemed very odd to me that the relationships that I've seen fail were the ones which never saw any disagreement, arguing, or fighting. I don't really understand why it works out that way, but it's been enough to prove to me that the ideal girl for me is someone that leaves me in a near-constant state of paranoia. I don't mean the literal sense of paranoia, I mean the vague sense of knowing that there is someone who is always around you, who knows exactly who you are and what you plan to do before you do it, and can never actually explain how they know these things, either to themselves or to you.
If you can be yourself around a person, and they accept you for it, chances are that you've found at the very least a good friend.
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