Need help

[greatachilles]

I really need help on this everyone! No jokes, if your gonna try to act funny, then don't even think about posting.

The thing is that i'm in Love. But that's not the main problem. I'll just tell you everything and you can give me ideas on what I should do.

I'm going to the 10th grade, she's going to the 11th grade. (she's a year old)
She lives next door!
She doesn't even know me! (i mean, she doesn't know my name or anything about me)
She already has a boyfriend!
I really love her, but i don't have the guts to talk to her, or tell her I love her cause i'm afraid she'll say no........

so what should I do?

[yosemite]

well it seems like a crush, but it really could be love, if it were me i'd go for it, age doesn't matter, cause i had a junior as a gf when i was a freshman, though she didnt know i was only 14 in any case the boyfriends the biggest problem, but this is what i would do:

id knock on her door and ask for her, when she came i would introduce myself, then i would tell her that it'd be great if we could start hanging out or going out, whichever, if she says she has a bf then just say, well i just wanted to leave that option out there, if you're ever free then give me a call, i live right next door.

p.s. since she doesnt know anything about you, she also doesnt know how old you are, you can choose to omit that, until you feel its necessary to tell her.

oh and dont tell her you love her right away she may think your a stalker, just tell her that you have genuine feelings for her. she may turn you down but there wont be any what if's when your 30 plus she will at least know who you are, and you may even start hanging out, just try to avoid the friend zone if your still interested in dating, cause it's really hard to date then.

[kanjisasahara]

if she lives next door feel free to introduce yourself. dont reveal your age unless it seems obvious. just start off in the right direction like as friends. cause i have a similar problem. i have a girl who lives next door. i like her and shes 2 years older than me. but we're friends and its probably gonna stay like that. but im not complaining

[yosemite]

its so funny i hadn't realized it but i used to live next door to a girl, i didnt realize i liked her though, we were kinda friends i walked with her to the bus stop every day, and then i realized she liked me so i asked her out, my circumstances were diff. than yours though, but she was really nice, i walked with her because these two mexican guys, took her and 2 girls and 1 guy into the woods behind the playground, they were caught but i didnt know till someone told me, then i figured out why she had to have me come with her, but im glad she picked me, in any case she was still cool and i loved being with her.

another funny thing, she moved the next year and i was sad, then i moved about a month later guess who was my new neighbor!!! her, i was so happy, what a coincidence

[greatachilles]

another thing, I can't talk to her, i don't know what happens to me, I just can't even talk to her. Plus, i think her mother doesn't like us (my family).

Cause one day, their dog came on my driveway and my sister thought the dog was about to bite her so she screamed and the dog ran away, then my sister told her mother to keep the dog off our property or were going to call the animal guys to take it away.

I found out this thing like a month later when my sister told me, i was freakin mad!

I think what i'm going to do is, wait for school to start, (and i hope she's in one of my classes) and talk to her there and become friends and all that.

thanks for the advices............
could take more

[yosemite]

i really think you should go directly to her, dont wait, if her mother is a problem, talk to her mother first, tell her that your sorry about the dog situation and you'll talk to your sister, at least then you'll be on better terms. then just talk to the girl, cause even if your afraid at least say hello, then if you have classes together she'll recognize you, and you might be project partners, that way you'll have an excuse to go into her house.

[greatachilles]

thanks alot dude!

[CYLON]

If you realy truly love this girl. then it is important to talk to her so you can see if still love her (personailty wise.) I suggest the following:

Just say hi, if all goes well she will respond and you can start a conversation.Saying "hi" is not that hard, for example just be outside and when this girl is outside just say hi. And from there you can say "how are you" and so on.
If she does not wont to start a conversation or ends it that means she has no interest in you, and then I suggest you just ignore this girl. Dont let your love for her mess up your day to day life.

Hope all goes well for you.

[arcelf]

Vague Plan.
The first step is become friends with her.
Get to know better
Plant seeds of doubt to get her to dump BF " I know i am evil"
Ask her out at a later date
Live happy =p

Somewhere in thete try giving her parents a good impression that your not like your family and are honest and dependable.

Movie Theaters are classic. Try finding a conner seat.

Try obtaining as much info about her the more you know someone the easier it is to talk to in person. Like the person i am after right now i talk to on msn everyday. Didn't matter if i got her email off of a chain letter from one of her friends i once went out with.

Age is not a matter even more when you get older example. 40 year olds marrying 29 year olds happens offen..

Try making friends with her friends.

Most of all be yourself. And don't kill yourself if you fail live and move on
Don't turn your self in to a stalker Find something or someone to fill the hole that once was there.
Friends are good help and don't try to get revenge or anything.
And try cylons suggestion sounds good to me

[greatachilles]

thanks alot guys and 2 things:

I am not a killer
and
I am not a suicider (that's how you spell it right?)