Quarrel Forum

armislengan · #1 (**permalink**) 04 Jul 2006, 19:30

hye guys. jus wana know. why actually couples breakup. is it becoz of da boy or da girl. leave out ur opinion. other reason or ur personal experience also can be shared

Bam · #2 (**permalink**) 04 Jul 2006, 21:18

That depends on the relationship. If it's a 10 year marriage or something, it can just be because they don't feel attracted to each other anymore. If it's only after a month or two, it is usually just because the person they originally asked out and the person they are currently going out with seem like two different people. People tend to put on an act when trying to impress the opposite sex and most people can't keep that act up for too long. While alot of people know how to attract the other sex, they don't actually become that person, rather they pretend to be it.

Yuuji · #3 (**permalink**) 04 Jul 2006, 21:32

More to the point that its actually really damn hard to keep together. It is very difficult to keep up a engaging relationship.

Think of your parents, do they stay together and do things (let alone say things) to each other the same way a pair of 16 year olds do? Probably not.

Now, whether or not there is an option, or a desire to leave, is another question. But in a nutshell, staying together is, in a way, not the norm.

darkshadowmage · #4 (**permalink**) 05 Jul 2006, 02:02

Every reason is different...but if you want to make an in general one there are two types of relationships...one where people put up with each other despite differences that are ALWAYS there and the other is people that give up after it gets too hard. Too hard is relative to each person.