Your ex is one of those girls that need a HUGE dose of reality, TakeMeForCola...
To really oversimplify matters, men are really VERY practical creatures. Women on the other hand... like to complicate things by thinking far, far ahead... sometimes too far ahead that it ceases to be real... until reality creeps back in, and they realise that their guy has moved on in a way they least expected.
Serves them right for taking guys for granted...
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"It is only a matter of time before the Age of Darkest Night begins. Do not listen to his ramblings, brethren... Victory eludes him and if we await the results of his pursuit of Fortune or Truth, we better prepare to fight." -- Agator Thundi, 'Black Dragon at Zenith'